In the evolving landscape of remote work and digital nomad visas, a growing number of Indian professionals are looking beyond their homeland's bustling metros for a better quality of life. While cities like Bengaluru and Delhi continue to be major hubs for tech talent, some are making unconventional choices. Shreya Mahendru, an Indian content creator and tech worker, is one such professional who traded the familiar comforts of India for a new life in Bangkok, Thailand.
Finding Peace in Bangkok's Mornings
Shreya's decision wasn't driven by luxury or seeking an easier life. In fact, she points out she could have afforded a comfortable setup with domestic help in cities like Delhi or Bengaluru. Instead, she moved to Bangkok on a digital nomad visa, where she manages her own chores. The first and most striking change she noticed was the profound sense of peace, especially in the mornings.
"The mornings are so peaceful, no honking at 6 am or even throughout the day," Shreya explained. She acknowledges that Bangkok has traffic, but describes it as fundamentally calmer. This shift in daily rhythm and the absence of constant noise pollution became a primary reason why the Thai capital suits her better than India's major tech cities.
Safety, Respect, and the Value of Fair Wages
Another significant contrast for Shreya lies in public behavior and safety. She observed a marked difference in social interactions, particularly from men. She describes the masculinity in Bangkok as "softer," noting the absence of aggressive staring or intimidating attitudes that can make public spaces in India feel stressful for women. This environment allows her to move around the city feeling more relaxed and secure.
Her perspective also extends to the economics of daily convenience. While hiring affordable full-time domestic help is common in India, Shreya highlights a different model in Bangkok. "Here in Bangkok, we can hire a cleaner at fair wages once every few days. I cook for myself sometimes and clean my own space. Fair wages feel better than cheap convenience," she stated. This approach aligns with a preference for equitable labor practices over inexpensive personal service.
A Personal Choice, Not a National Critique
Shreya is quick to clarify that her move is a personal lifestyle choice, not a condemnation of India. She misses the warmth of her community, friends, and the unique chaos that has its own charm. However, for her, the trade-off was worth it. She emphasizes better public infrastructure, parks that are truly relaxing, and a system that "just works better."
"I have the privilege of choice, and I chose this. It's not about one place being better, it's about what fits your life," she concluded. Her experience has sparked a wider conversation among the Indian diaspora and professionals considering a similar path.
Many Indians living abroad echoed her sentiments in comments and shares. One user pointed out how a trip to Southeast Asia reveals what is often sacrificed for "cheap convenience" at home: women's safety, civic sense, and basic infrastructure. Another man, who moved his family to Phuket, noted his wife's newfound confidence in what she wears and how she goes out, alongside a less stressful education system for his daughter.
A student in Bangkok shared her experience of feeling free and safe, able to go out late at night without the constant worry that plagues many in Indian cities. Shreya Mahendru's story underscores a broader trend: for a segment of Indian tech professionals and digital nomads, the quest is less about leaving India and more about intentionally finding a global city that aligns with their priorities for peace, safety, and personal independence.
