Bengaluru women are speaking out about their experiences with misogynistic dating behavior, following a recent controversy over a 'Rs 370 biryani' date that has sparked widespread discussion. Many say the incident highlights deeper patterns of entitlement, sexism, and a lack of respect for consent in the dating scene.
The 'Rs 370 Biryani' Row
The controversy began when a man reportedly complained about spending Rs 370 on a biryani during a date, expecting something in return. The story went viral, prompting women to share similar anecdotes of entitled behavior. One woman recounted how a date insisted she pay half despite him choosing an expensive restaurant, while another described being pressured to 'compensate' for a meal.
Entitlement and Sexism
Women say such incidents reflect a broader culture where men view dates as transactions. 'It's not about the money; it's about the assumption that paying for a meal buys them rights over my time or body,' said a 28-year-old software professional. Another added, 'Many men see dating as a service they are owed, not a mutual experience.'
Disregard for Consent
Several women highlighted how consent is often ignored. 'He kept insisting I come to his place after dinner, even after I said no multiple times,' recalled a 25-year-old marketing executive. 'When I finally left, he texted me calling me a waste of his money.'
Broader Patterns
These stories are not isolated. A recent survey by a local women's group found that 7 out of 10 women in Bengaluru have faced some form of misogynistic behavior on dates. Common issues include unsolicited comments on appearance, pressure to drink alcohol, and demands for physical intimacy.
Changing the Narrative
Activists say the conversation is long overdue. 'We need to teach respect and equality from a young age,' said a gender rights advocate. 'Dating should be about connection, not power dynamics.' Women are now using social media to share their stories, using hashtags like #DatingWithDignity to call for change.
As one woman put it, 'It's 2026. We deserve dates where we are treated as equals, not as objects to be won or consumed.' The hope is that by speaking out, they can shift the culture toward healthier, more respectful relationships.
