In the world of Bollywood, where every move is scrutinised, the personal lives of celebrities often become as compelling as their on-screen dramas. Fans are perpetually curious, tracking everything from rumoured romances to breakups. In today's digital age, navigating relationships under the public eye presents unique challenges. Recently, actors Kartik Aaryan and Ananya Panday, while promoting their upcoming film 'Tu Meri Main Tera Main Tera Tu Meri', sat down with Nikhil Taneja for Yuvaa to share their candid thoughts on love, partnership, and the essential ingredients for a healthy bond.
The Foundation: What Kartik and Ananya Seek in a Partner
Despite often finding himself linked to various co-stars in the rumour mill, Kartik Aaryan is currently believed to be single. When asked about the pillars of a happy relationship, Kartik was clear about his priorities. He emphasised, "I think friendship and mutual respect... And honesty is really important. When you see these green flags in a person, I think you should never let them go."
His focus on respect aligns with expert psychological opinion. Research underscores that respect is arguably more critical than love for a relationship's longevity. As author and professor Peter Gray, Ph.D., noted in Psychology Today, "Love without respect is dangerous". True respect involves appreciating your partner as a separate individual, not an extension of your own desires.
Echoing the need for core values, Ananya Panday shared her checklist. "Everyone wants the same thing, like loyalty and honesty. A good sense of humour is very important," she stated. Delving deeper, Ananya highlighted the value of authenticity, saying, "I would also say someone who is very genuine, like I don't like people who change in front of other people. What you are, you should be like that with everyone."
The Deal-Breaker: The Biggest Red Flag According to the Stars
When the conversation turned to warning signs in relationships, both actors found immediate common ground. They unanimously identified lying as the ultimate red flag. "I don't think lying in any form is acceptable to me," Ananya asserted firmly.
She further expanded her list of deal-breakers to include a lack of support and disrespect. "A person who disrespects you and isn't supportive of your work and dreams is also a big red flag for me," Ananya explained. This ties back to her vision of a modern, equitable partnership.
Modern Love: Ananya's Take on Equality in Relationships
Ananya Panday offered a thoughtful perspective on the evolution of relationships, stressing the importance of equality. She pointed out that traditional gender roles can be burdensome. "I feel that's a lot of pressure on men also, to only be taking on that role, and a relationship has to be equal," she said.
For her, a supportive dynamic is key. "You have to be happy for each other when they are succeeding or doing well," she added, advocating for a partnership where both individuals champion each other's successes without insecurity or competition.
The insights from Kartik Aaryan and Ananya Panday move beyond film promotions, offering a glimpse into the values that guide their personal lives. In an industry of constant speculation, their emphasis on honesty, respect, genuineness, and equality presents a relatable blueprint for what makes relationships work, both in and out of the spotlight.
