The rulebook for love is getting a complete rewrite for 2026. As we approach the new year, dating dynamics are set for a significant transformation, moving away from rigid checklists and embracing sincerity, spontaneity, and genuine connection. A recent study by the dating app Plenty of Fish, which surveyed nearly 6,000 American singles, has unveiled the key trends that will define how people flirt, connect, and build relationships in the coming year.
The New Vocabulary of Modern Romance
Understanding these new terms is crucial for anyone navigating the modern dating scene. The trends highlight a collective shift towards authenticity and being open to unexpected connections. Here’s a detailed look at the dating trends that will rule 2026.
ChemRIZZtry: The Spark You Didn't See Coming
Have you ever felt an unexpected romantic spark with someone who was completely outside your usual type? This experience now has a name: ChemRIZZtry (pronounced kem-rizz-tree). The term describes catching unexpected chemistry with someone you didn't anticipate being into, purely because of their undeniable charisma or 'rizz'.
The dating app's research found that this is a common experience, with one in four singles reporting such a surprising shift in attraction. This trend proves that love isn't always about first impressions; sometimes, it's about the charm that reveals itself over time.
Love-loreing: Dating for the Story
Another trend taking center stage is Love-loreing (luhv-lohr-ing). This concept is for those who join dating apps 'for the plot,' seeking interesting experiences and stories rather than just a final outcome. Life is about saying yes to new adventures, and this philosophy is now being applied to dating.
A significant 37% of singles admitted they have gone on a date simply to see where the story leads, chasing love through new and shared activities. It’s the real-life equivalent of enjoying a plot twist in your favorite romantic comedy.
Embracing Authenticity and Clarity
Two other major trends focus on removing games and ambiguity from dating. Curveball-crushing is the act of falling for someone who doesn't fit your predefined 'type.' A substantial 42% of those surveyed have experienced this, reinforcing the idea that attraction can develop over time when you focus on vibes rather than a checklist.
Meanwhile, Truecasting addresses a common dating grievance: partners who change after the initial dating phase. This trend is all about presenting your authentic self from the very first date, without filters or facades.
Finally, vague situationships are officially out. The trend of StAtuS-flexing sees singles proudly defining their relationships. The data shows that whether people are casually dating (64%), exclusive (30%), or in a committed boyfriend/girlfriend dynamic (62%), they are now opting for clear labels and ditching ambiguity for good.
