In a revelation that mirrors a complex romantic screenplay, Bollywood actor Gulshan Devaiah has shared a deeply personal chapter of his life. The 'Hunterrr' star disclosed that he and his ex-wife, fellow actor Kallirroi Tziafetta, have rekindled their relationship and are now dating again, four years after their separation.
The Journey from Separation to Reunion
Gulshan Devaiah and Kallirroi Tziafetta parted ways in 2020 after being married for eight years. However, in a turn of events in 2024, the couple found their way back to each other. Speaking candidly on SCREEN Spotlight, Devaiah reflected on this unconventional path, stating, "I'm dating my ex-wife now."
He was quick to attribute this second chance to profound personal development. "The reason that was possible was a lot of introspection, growth, and maturity," Devaiah explained. A significant catalyst in this process was professional guidance. "A good amount of it came from talking to a trained professional in couples therapy. We try to do it as regularly as possible after we've gotten back together," he added, highlighting their commitment to maintaining a healthy dynamic.
The Role of Therapy and Self-Discovery
Devaiah elaborated on how therapy provided him with crucial tools and self-awareness. He acknowledged that strategies are personal, and what works for one may not work for another. His therapeutic journey included taking an ADHD test and managing anxiety, albeit without medication. "It helps to have the knowledge because you understand the triggers," he noted, emphasizing the value of self-understanding in navigating relationship challenges.
Psychiatrist Dr. Murali Krishna, a visiting consultant at Aster RV Hospital, weighed in on the psychology behind such reunions. He explained that successful reconnections often stem from "self-awareness, emotional maturity and a better understanding of past errors." Dr. Krishna pointed out that time apart can serve a positive purpose by reducing emotional volatility, fostering more balanced communication, and helping individuals set realistic expectations.
"Therapy provides a safe space to discuss reasons for the breakup, reflect on personal growth, and understand each other's expectations," Dr. Krishna stated. He further noted its critical role in helping couples recognize unhealthy communication patterns and rebuild the essential foundation of trust before recommitting.
Navigating Past Challenges with Honesty
When probed about objectively assessing what led to their initial split, Devaiah responded with introspection. "Sure. It's never one reason," he began. He opened up about the personal struggles he faced during that period, including the inherent uncertainty of the film business which demanded his singular focus.
In a moment of raw honesty, he recalled the conflicting emotions he experienced, "Sometimes, I thought, 'I don't want this person in the house. I love her, but can I be alone for some time?'" This candid admission underscores the complex mix of love and the need for personal space that can strain a marriage.
For a healthy restart, Dr. Krishna emphasizes clear communication and patience as non-negotiable elements. "Couples must discuss past issues openly, set healthy boundaries, and rebuild trust with consistency and transparency," he advised. He cautioned that therapy ensures reuniting is a conscious, healthy choice rather than a reaction to fear, guilt, or mere familiarity.
Despite the past difficulties, Gulshan Devaiah's outlook on marriage remains positive. "Definitely. I really enjoyed being married, although I wasn't successful at it. But I love the concept of marriage. I'm not the one who would say marriage is not for me," he shared. His renewed relationship with Kallirroi Tziafetta is now firmly grounded in a foundation of honesty, continuous effort, and the hard-won maturity that came from their time apart and dedicated therapeutic work.
