The Banjara community across 17 tandas in Gajendragad taluk has resolved to curb dowry and rein in extravagant wedding expenses, adopting a set of reforms aimed at easing financial burdens and protecting women.
The decision was taken at a meeting held on Wednesday at the Dakshinakashi Kalakaleshwara temple premises, attended by community elders, youth and officials. After deliberations on the social and economic impact of dowry practices, the gathering passed a resolution prohibiting customs seen as exploitative and financially draining.
Community leaders Suresh C Rathod, Padiyappa Chavhan and Lakshman Rathod said the initiative was meant to set an example for other tandas. Key decisions include banning alcohol consumption and DJs at weddings, limiting attendance to a maximum of 21 people, and avoiding lavish meals at minor ceremonies. Only household essentials may be given to the bride, while wedding expenses must be shared equally if the ceremony is held at the bride's home.
Both the bride's and groom's families will provide one mangalsutra each, with pendants weighing no more than five grams. Traditional bangles alone may be gifted to women.
Leaders Narayanappa Malottar, Chandru Karabari and Nemappa Malottar said the community has also banned the practice of ‘Hod Bakara', a meat feast held three days after a death. Instead, members will offer condolences and support without animal sacrifice, in keeping with traditional values.
The resolution, approved by elders of the 17 tandas, will apply to matrimonial alliances formed with any tanda across the country. Elders will also counsel other tandas to adopt similar norms, they said.
The tandas involved are Rajur, Dindur, Lakkalakatti, Bhairapur, Janata Plat, Nellur, Sarjapur, Rudrapur, Amargatti, Kodaganur, Benachamatti, Nagarsakoppa and Gowdagere.
Guru Gosai Bhava, seer of Banjara Peetha, Bahaddur Banda, Koppal, said dowry was not part of traditional Banjara customs. "Earlier, brides' families gifted cattle to help the couple start their lives. Over time, this turned into a heavy dowry burden. This decision should serve as a model for all tandas," he said.
