For countless urban commuters in India, the simple act of getting from point A to point B has transformed into a daily battle of nerves. The hopeful query, "Bhaiya, aap aa rahe hain, na?" (Brother, you are coming, right?), is repeated like a desperate mantra, often with little assurance of success. This isn't a story of luxury but one of a basic necessity turned into a frustrating, time-consuming chore that steals precious hours and peace of mind.
The Illusion of a Confirmed Booking
In many parts of the world, a confirmed cab booking means you can relax. In India, for many users, it merely signals the start of complex negotiations. The journey begins not when the car arrives, but the moment your screen flashes "Booking Confirmed." This is followed by a tense period of waiting for contact from the driver, which often requires the passenger to initiate.
You send the first text. Silence. You make the first call. If answered, you are immediately subjected to a rapid-fire questionnaire that feels designed to test your resolve. The driver's queries are familiar to any seasoned user: 'Where is the exact pickup?' 'We don't go to that area.' 'How much is the app showing?' 'What is your payment method?' 'You will have to pay the toll separately.' 'Your location is too interior.' 'How wide is the road?'
Navigating this interrogation requires the calm demeanor of a game show contestant, answering politely without losing composure. It feels less like hiring a service and more like clearing a preliminary round of Kaun Banega Crorepati.
The Heartbreak of the Vanishing Cab
The real psychological blow comes after you pass this test. The driver agrees. You watch the tiny car icon on your map begin its journey toward you. Hope flickers. It gets closer. It's just minutes away. And then, it stops. The icon freezes. A cold dread sets in. "We are trying to find you another driver."
This notification, after all the effort, feels like a personal rejection. You followed the script. You were patient and courteous. What more could be required? Should you submit your credit score? Provide lane width measurements to assure safe passage? Sign a legal affidavit promising silence and punctuality? The cancellation is a demoralizing reset, confirming that you will, once again, be late.
The Final Hurdles: Complaints and Unscheduled Stops
When a second or third driver finally accepts and actually arrives, it's a Pyrrhic victory. The ordeal is not over. The moment you sink into the seat, the driver often begins complaining about your destination—it's too short, too far, too congested. You learn to ignore it, grateful just to be moving.
But the commute has its own surprises. Within minutes, you might hear the inevitable: "Madam/Sir, CNG bharwana hai" (I need to fill CNG). An unscheduled stop, adding more minutes to a journey that was already delayed from its inception. You are a captive audience, your schedule now secondary to the vehicle's fuel needs.
This daily grind of cab booking has become a full-time job without any of the benefits, salary, or dignity. It's a shared urban experience that starts the day with stress and ends it with exhaustion. The technology promised seamlessness, but for many, the human elements of negotiation, cancellation, and unpredictability have created a new layer of complexity in the simple act of getting a ride. The quest for a reliable commute continues, one cancelled booking and one "Bhaiya, aap aa rahe hain?" at a time.