While BTS maintains an incredibly close relationship with their global ARMY fanbase, the members have consistently kept their romantic lives largely private. Despite their massive fame and constant public scrutiny, the seven singers have managed to shield this personal aspect from excessive exposure. However, through various interviews, variety show appearances, and magazine features over the years, some members have offered rare, candid glimpses into their experiences with love, relationships, and what they seek in ideal partners.
RM's Philosophical Take on Love and Self-Discovery
During a 2017 group interview with Entertainment Tonight, while discussing their impactful Love Yourself album series, RM addressed questions about BTS's love lives with remarkable depth. He revealed that the members often express feelings of loneliness and desire to date when they're single. However, RM emphasized a more profound perspective, stating, "The biggest love we are searching for is the love for one's self. If you wanna love others, you should love yourself first." This reflection highlights how BTS's music themes of self-acceptance resonate deeply with their personal philosophies.
Jimin's Blushing Memories of Unrequited Love
In an early appearance on the variety program Rookie King, Jimin shared a vulnerable memory about experiencing one-sided love. He described how merely being within five meters of his crush would cause his face to turn "red as a tomato." Jimin humorously compared his reaction to a censor blur, illustrating his youthful shyness. He admitted he never acted on these feelings, leaving the experience as a bittersweet memory of unexpressed affection.
RM's High School Romance and Jealousy Struggles
Back in 2015, RM appeared as a guest on the popular show Problematic Men, where he opened up about a past relationship from his high school years. He recalled dating a girl who had numerous male friends, which became a significant point of contention. RM confessed that while this wouldn't bother him now, his younger self struggled with jealousy, leading to constant arguments. He acknowledged this dynamic ultimately contributed to their breakup, showing his growth in understanding relationships.
V's Practical Criteria for an Ideal Partner
During a 2015 questionnaire for The Star magazine, each BTS member described their ideal partner. V's responses stood out for their practicality and family-oriented values. He expressed wanting someone who knows how to save money when I make money and would prevent him from overspending. Additionally, V emphasized preferring a partner who prioritizes buying a house over a car and demonstrates willingness to give everything to their parents, revealing his grounded approach to relationships.
Suga's Heartfelt Letter to an Ex-Girlfriend
In one of his most personal revelations, Suga shared that he once submitted a letter about an ex-girlfriend to a radio show host. The heartfelt message detailed how their relationship evolved from friendship to dating after his confession. Suga admitted his shyness and tendency to compare their romantic dynamic to their previous friendship created awkwardness, leading to their breakup. He reflected, "I truly understood where she was coming from when she broke off the relationship and I went into reflection after that." Suga expressed regret about his behavior and wished he had acted differently, showing his capacity for introspection and growth.
These scattered revelations, though few, demonstrate that despite their superstar status, BTS members experience universal emotions of love, heartbreak, and personal growth. Their willingness to occasionally share these moments adds depth to their public personas while maintaining appropriate boundaries around their private lives.
