Grammy-winning singer and NFL WAG Ciara recently opened up about the magical first moments with her now-husband, New York Giants quarterback Russell Wilson. In a candid conversation on The BigDeal Podcast with host Codie Sanchez, Ciara recounted the instant connection she felt, confirming the age-old adage: "when you know, you know."
The Unforgettable First Meeting
Ciara described a uniquely intimate setting for their initial in-person encounter. Her father, Carlton Harris, and her firstborn son, Future Zahir Wilburn, were present in the house. She had invited Wilson over, clarifying to him that they were "just friends." However, Russell Wilson immediately set the record straight, countering that he was not there merely for friendship.
The chemistry was undeniable from the start. The pair became so engrossed in conversation that they completely forgot to eat, talking for hours. Wilson eventually had to leave for a prior meeting, and Ciara needed to eat, but both were captivated, lost in each other's company. This profound connection marked the beginning of their journey together.
"Oh, I Knew": The Moment of Certainty
When asked by Codie Sanchez how she knew Russell Wilson was her life partner, Ciara's response was immediate and emphatic. "Oh, I knew. They say, when you know, you know," she stated. This certainty prompted her to call her best friend and makeup artist, Yolonda Frederick-Thompson, right after their meeting.
Not wanting to jinx the feeling, Ciara was hesitant to voice her thoughts. Thompson intuitively asked, "He's the one?" to which Ciara replied with an enthusiastic "Yes!" She revealed that a similar conversation happened between Russell Wilson and his friend, highlighting their mutual, instant recognition. Ciara described it as an indescribable feeling, a distinct knowing that marks the difference.
Ciara's Blueprint to Manifesting Love
The podcast segment, titled "How To Manifest Anything (And Win At Life)," specifically explored "How to manifest love" during the "Whiteboard Sessions with Your Partner." The mother-of-four shared her personal philosophy, emphasizing that love should be the "cherry on top" of an already fulfilling life.
Ciara's advice centres on self-love and clarity. She insists that one must first love and care for themselves, embracing solitude and self-sufficiency. "We have to love ourselves first... We don't want to be in a place where love is what makes us complete," she explained, referencing a biblical principle about love's importance while stressing internal wholeness.
Her practical steps for manifestation include:
- Visualizing the specific qualities desired in a partner and a relationship.
- Considering how that partner loves themselves, loves others, and improves the environment around them.
- Actively speaking life into those desires through affirmation and clear intention.
"There is power in that," Ciara concluded, framing love as a powerful force that one can consciously attract after achieving self-contentment. Her story with Russell Wilson stands as a testament to her beliefs, a real-life example of knowing and manifesting a destined connection.
