Kanwar Dhillon, who currently portrays Sachin in the television show Udne Ki Aasha, is an advocate for maintaining healthy boundaries with the digital world. The actor acknowledges that social media can be beneficial, but warns that relying on it for acceptance and self-worth can have detrimental effects.
Staying Connected Without Addiction
During an exclusive conversation, Kanwar admits that he uses social media to stay connected and informed, but he never allows it to dominate his life. “I see a lot of people around me who have nothing to do except scroll endlessly through social media,” he says. “I do check what's happening around me and in the world, but there is a limit to it. I am not addicted to it, nor do I depend on it to pass my time.”
Protecting Peace of Mind
The actor also makes a conscious effort not to let social media disturb his mental tranquility. “I don't allow anything on social media to impact me so much that it makes me unhappy or uncomfortable,” he explains. “Unfortunately, a lot of people today are dependent on it, and I think that's a bad addiction. I'm glad I have my boundaries and I want to keep it that way.”
Prioritizing Self-Awareness Over Strangers' Opinions
Kanwar is equally clear about the minimal importance he assigns to opinions from strangers online. He believes that self-awareness and the views of loved ones are far more valuable than public perception. “The best judge of yourself is you,” he asserts. “After that come the people who genuinely care about you—your family, your closest friends and your inner circle. Their feedback is honest and valuable. I don't think random opinions from strangers should bother anyone so much that it affects their life.”
Critiquing Validation Culture
The actor is particularly critical of the culture that seeks validation through likes, comments, and followers. “For a lot of people, social media validation has become everything. Personally, I find that funny,” he states. “The only validation I seek in the public domain is through my work and what I offer to my viewers. Beyond that, how I live my life is nobody else's concern.”
Drawing the Line on Personal Milestones
Kanwar also believes that celebrities should know where to draw the line when sharing personal milestones. Recalling the purchase of his home, he reveals that he kept the achievement private for over a year until he finally moved in with his family. “I could have spoken about it throughout the construction process, but I didn't think it was necessary,” he explains. “Some things are personal and sacred. People can know what's happening in your life, but they don't need every detail. That's exactly where I draw the line.”
