Instagram finance creator Udayan Adhye has ignited a fresh wave of debate online after claiming that raising a child in a metro city in India could cost as much as Rs 6.75 crore. This figure has quickly spread beyond his original audience, stirring strong reactions across social media platforms.
The Viral Video and Its Core Argument
In a video posted on Instagram, Adhye argued that the financial demands of parenting have grown sharply in urban India. This growth is driven by the steady rise in education costs, lifestyle expenses, and inflation over time. His post has been widely shared, with many viewers calling the estimate alarming, while others say it reflects the harsh arithmetic of modern middle-class parenting.
Breaking Down the Costs
According to Adhye's calculation, the long-term cost of raising a child in a metro is not limited to tuition fees alone. He emphasized that parents often underestimate the true burden because they rely on traditional child investment plans that may not grow quickly enough to keep pace with rising expenses. This is especially critical when education inflation runs much hotter than general inflation.
Adhye framed the estimate bluntly in the video: raising a child in an Indian metro could require Rs 6.75 crore, and he invited viewers to examine the exact math behind the claim. His central argument is that school fees in many urban centers are rising at around 10 to 12 percent every year, a pace that can cause costs to double roughly every six years.
He also suggested that what may look like an affordable college budget today could become far steeper by the time a child reaches adulthood. In his breakdown, a college degree that currently costs around Rs 20 lakh could rise to somewhere between Rs 1.6 crore and Rs 2 crore by the time a newborn turns 18. The point, he implied, was not to predict one fixed figure for every family, but to show how sharply future education costs could compound.
Beyond Education: Hidden Expenses
Beyond schooling and college, Adhye said the real cost of parenting includes several other recurring expenses that accumulate quietly over the years. He counted sports, music lessons, coaching classes, vacations, gadgets, healthcare, lifestyle spending, and even nanny services during the early years of a child's life. Taken together, those costs turn parenting into a long-term financial commitment rather than a purely emotional one.
In the caption accompanying the post, Adhye wrote that raising a child in an Indian metro is no longer just an emotional decision but a serious financial goal. He added that school, college, coaching, lifestyle, healthcare, gadgets, and vacations all add up over 21 years, and said that a basic child plan would not be enough to cover that burden.
Variations and Clarifications
Adhye also clarified that his estimate would vary from family to family depending on lifestyle choices, schooling preferences, and educational goals. Postgraduate education, he noted, is often treated separately and may be funded later through an education loan or by the child themselves.
Social Media Reactions
The video quickly spread online and drew mixed reactions. Many users appeared stunned by the scale of the number and flooded the comments section asking for the child calculator he mentioned in the clip. Adhye said interested viewers could comment or send him a direct message to receive a Google document containing the detailed calculations.
At the same time, the post opened up a broader conversation about parenting costs in India's cities, where private schooling, coaching culture, and rising household expenses have become an increasing concern for many families. Some social media users saw the video as a useful wake-up call about planning for the future. Others accused such content of feeding anxiety around parenthood and making family life appear financially out of reach.
One user joked that they would rather buy a Lamborghini for themselves, while another said such reels were becoming a source of pressure rather than guidance, and were pushing fear about having children. For now, Adhye's viral calculation has done what many finance posts rarely manage to do: it has forced a wide audience to think, and argue, about how much it really costs to raise a child in India's urban centers.
About the Author
The TOI Lifestyle Desk is a dynamic team of dedicated journalists who, with unwavering passion and commitment, sift through the pulse of the nation to curate a vibrant tapestry of lifestyle news for The Times of India readers. At the TOI Lifestyle Desk, we go beyond the obvious, delving into the extraordinary. Consider us your lifestyle companion, providing a daily dose of inspiration and information. Whether you're seeking the latest fashion trends, travel escapades, culinary delights, or wellness tips, the TOI Lifestyle Desk is your one-stop destination for an enriching lifestyle experience.
