In a candid revelation on her YouTube channel, popular actress and television personality Archana Puran Singh has opened up about the financial dynamics in her marriage with husband Parmeet Sethi. The couple, known for their enduring relationship in the entertainment industry, shared intimate details about their early days together, challenging traditional gender norms and societal expectations.
Financial Support and Gender Roles in Marriage
Archana Puran Singh revealed that when she first married Parmeet Sethi, he was not earning any money. She expressed that this never bothered her, stating emphatically, "I've always lived my life like a guy. I never felt that you had to earn when you weren't. For me, it was enough that I was earning. I've fought every form of patriarchy out there, so why would I care about a man not earning?" This bold statement highlights her progressive outlook on relationships and financial responsibilities.
Parmeet Sethi's Perspective on Earnings Disparity
Parmeet Sethi openly acknowledged that for most of their married life, Archana earned more money than him. He shared, "She earned more than me for most of our lives. She married me when I had no money." He added that Archana never made him feel inferior about this financial disparity, and there were phases when his own career flourished, allowing him to contribute significantly as well.
Overcoming Challenges and Achieving Success
The couple discussed how facing challenges together shaped their personal and professional growth. Archana emphasized, "If you see a challenge in front of you, look at it as a way forward. A challenge is something to accept, because the moment you face one, growth comes with it. Real growth happens only through challenges. When everything is going hunky-dory, there's no growth at all. Success teaches you nothing; failure does." This philosophy has evidently guided their journey through the ups and downs of the entertainment industry.
Addressing Gender Stereotypes and Success
Archana further elaborated on her views about success and gender, saying, "I never thought about which gender is more successful. I never looked at it that way. Sometimes I'd even think, 'Oh my God, idiot, you should have a little sympathy for Bittu that I'm successful.' But I think the reason was that I never saw any difference between you and me." This reflects her commitment to equality and mutual respect in their relationship.
Parmeet on the 'Trophy Wife' Label and Career Growth
Parmeet Sethi addressed claims that he might be considered a 'trophy husband' due to Archana's fame and earnings. He clarified, "It felt good that you were an actress, that people knew you, that we didn't have to stand in queues. I got to travel the world with you comfortably and for free, so yes, there were many perks. But I was never a trophy wife. A trophy wife is someone who has done nothing herself. The trophy comes only when I become something on my own. I was a struggler, and for a struggler, it's different. For me, it was never about that."
Career Milestones and Mutual Support
Parmeet also shared how his career eventually took off, with successful television serials like Kurukshetra, Daastan, and the iconic film DDLJ. He said, "I became successful in my own right. I was a household name on television. I had three back-to-back super-hit serials... I was always confident that I would become someone. I knew I was a little behind, but I also knew I would overtake it. There was never any insecurity that you were more successful than me. I genuinely rejoiced in your success and the fact that you were doing so well."
This heartfelt conversation between Archana Puran Singh and Parmeet Sethi offers a refreshing perspective on modern marriages, where financial contributions are not tied to gender, and mutual support fosters both personal and professional growth. Their story serves as an inspiration for couples navigating similar dynamics in today's evolving societal landscape.
