Popular actress Rubina Dilaik, mother of twin daughters Edhaa and Jeeva, recently shared intimate details of her motherhood journey in an exclusive interview with Times of India TV. She discussed how life changed after welcoming twins, recalling the challenges of hiding her pregnancy during her debut Punjabi film shoot amid extreme heat, the constant support from husband Abhinav Shukla, and her experience with mom guilt.
Hiding Pregnancy While Shooting
Rubina revealed that she kept her pregnancy a secret initially because she was expecting twins. Her doctor advised waiting until the first trimester and necessary scans were completed before announcing. During that time, she was shooting for a Punjabi film, working 12 to 14 hours daily under the hot sun. The heat was so intense that her nose would start bleeding on set. She managed by taking cold showers and sitting in a bathtub after returning to the hotel, often feeling nauseous and thirsty, but never complained due to her passion for work.
Balancing Work and Family
Rubina emphasized the importance of balance, stating she doesn't want to give up her dreams or miss family time. She said, 'I am a mindful person and a mindful mother. I am an artist and a public figure. It's all about finding the right balance.' Her daughters helped her realize her priorities, and she wants them to see that she followed her dreams while raising them. She also wants women to know motherhood doesn't end aspirations.
Support from Husband and Mother
Rubina credited her mother and Abhinav for stepping in when she is away. Abhinav respects her mother's time and says, 'Until Rubina comes back, I will take care of everything.' He ensures the children don't feel her absence, always explaining that 'mama is at work and will be back soon.' This support system is crucial for her family priority.
Dealing with Mom Guilt
Rubina admitted feeling mom guilt, especially when she had to leave home less than a month after giving birth to promote her film. She described walking through the airport with a heavy chest, headache, and crying for no reason. Abhinav told her it was natural and she had to find balance. Staying away for four or five days was tough, but she realized it's part of the sacrifice. She concluded, 'It is easy to stay at home with your children, but you also have to think about building your career. These are the challenges of motherhood, and we have to be strong enough to face them.'
