It was June 28, 1976. My wife, Devi, and I were living at Ananda Village, a spiritual cooperative community in the tradition of Paramhansa Yogananda. On that day, a massive forest fire destroyed our home, our clothes, and nearly all our possessions. Just eleven days earlier, we had welcomed a new child into our family.
The First Signs of Danger
Our first awareness of danger came when we saw smoke rising from a nearby road. Summer had arrived, and the fields and forests had already begun to dry out. The hundred or so members of the community were at first merely vigilant, then concerned, and finally aroused into action. The winds were blowing the fire uphill through knee-high grasses, heading in our direction. The fire crept steadily up the hill toward us, with waist-high flames spreading across the terrain.
I returned to our house. It was a small geodesic dome with a leaky roof, but it was home for our little family. I was completely focused on digging a perimeter trench when a young member of the community drove up shouting, "You have to leave. The flames are in the trees. There's no chance to save your house." Only then did I realize the unstoppable force of nature that had been unleashed. Meanwhile, Devi had taken our infant son to the doctor for his first checkup. That morning, she had packed up the items from our meditation room, intending to clean it when she got home. In the few remaining moments, this was all I could save.
Finding Comfort in Love
When I finally emerged from the smoking hillside, I found Devi standing there, obviously alarmed, not knowing whether I was alive or dead. My first instinct was to comfort her and do what I could to de-escalate her alarm while still letting her know that our home was gone. My first words, some of the best I have ever spoken, were, "Well, we don't have to worry about those leaks anymore." We comforted each other and soon realized that our baby's real home was built from the threads of love in our hearts.
Spiritual Approaches to Life's Challenges
As I contemplated that fateful event, I realized there were different approaches to addressing the challenges posed by the fire, each of which was valid. The same is true for the spiritual tests we face.
Confront It Head-On
If the challenge seems small enough to overcome, our growth lies in confronting it. Spiritually, it may be the fires of anger or the fear of loss that must be faced. We will each draw our own test to conquer, sized just right for us.
Accept, Surrender, and Move On
Many of life's issues are too big for us to change. Politics, economics, pandemics, and weather are all things we cannot fight individually. The best approach here is to accept conditions as they are, surrender to the goodness of God, and move on. This is harder than it seems, since it involves overcoming the reactive process. It will help if you can remember that it is all a dream of God.
Think of Others
Finally, the best spiritual approach in almost all situations is to forget about yourself and your needs. Think about the welfare of others. Self-forgetfulness broadens the human heart and opens up space for the all-healing flow of love. It then becomes possible to offer up the little love that is in us into the infinite love of God.
Authored by: Nayaswami Jyotish
