Saniya, a 20-year-old mother from Delhi, is preparing for one of India's toughest medical entrance exams, NEET, while caring for her 5-month-old daughter, Eliza. Her story is one of resilience and determination, defying societal norms and personal challenges.
Marriage at 18 to Pursue Education
Born into a conservative Muslim family, Saniya faced pressure to marry after completing class 10. However, she decided to marry her love, Vishal, to gain the freedom to study. The couple faced opposition from her family, which escalated to police involvement, but they eventually married. Saniya resumed her studies after marriage, completing class 12 before becoming a mother.
Balancing Baby and Books
Saniya resumed NEET preparation when Eliza was just one and a half months old. She studies during her baby's naps or late at night after household chores. Her Instagram page, @dr_neetmom, documents her journey with the bio 'Studying between baby naps.' While it sounds cute, Saniya admits it is challenging, managing household work, baby care, and studies. She relies on online coaching and self-study, staying motivated by her dream to become a doctor.
Support from Husband
Saniya credits her husband Vishal, a gig worker, for being her biggest support. He helps with household work and childcare, ensuring she has time to study. He encourages her when she feels demotivated, saying, 'Just work hard; everything will fall into place.'
The NEET paper leak controversy shook Saniya's confidence, making her feel her efforts were worthless. However, her husband motivated her to continue, and she regained her focus.
Facing Criticism
Saniya faces criticism and taunts from people who believe her dreams should end after marriage and motherhood. Comments like 'She won't achieve anything' or 'It's just a drama' hurt her, but she refuses to give up. She dreams not only for herself but for all girls and mothers who abandon their ambitions due to societal pressure.
Saniya believes that no one's dreams should end because of age, marriage, or motherhood. Her journey inspires many to persevere against all odds.
