In a significant move aimed at promoting simplicity and curbing excessive spending, a Muslim community panchayat in Uttar Pradesh's Mathura district has imposed strict new rules for wedding ceremonies. The decision, taken unanimously, targets lavish displays often associated with modern matrimonial functions.
Key Decisions of the Panchayat
The gathering, held by the Eidgah committee at Sarai Nikasa in the Delhi Gate area on December 26, saw participation from residents of Kosi Kalan town and its surrounding regions. The panchayat made several landmark decisions to redefine how weddings are conducted within the community.
The most notable rule is the ban on performing the 'nikah' (marriage ceremony) at hotels, guest houses, or commercial marriage halls. Henceforth, the nikah must be solemnized only in mosques. However, the wedding feast and other associated arrangements can still be hosted at these external venues.
Restrictions on Music, Fireworks, and Gifts
Beyond the venue, the panchayat has placed firm restrictions on other elements considered extravagant or disruptive. The use of DJ music and fireworks during wedding processions has been strictly prohibited. The traditional 'salami' ritual, where gifts are presented to the groom, has also been curtailed.
Advocate Jibran Hussain, who attended the meeting, explained that the trigger for this action was a recent incident where a wedding procession featured loud DJ music on the road with people dancing, causing a row in the locality. "In Islam, 'nikah' is always meant to be simple and lavish spending is strongly discouraged," Hussain told the Times of India.
Enforcement and Fines for Violations
The community has established a clear enforcement mechanism to ensure compliance. Those who initially flout the panchayat's order will be counselled. However, repeated violations will invite a substantial fine of Rs 11,000.
Mehraraj Qureshi, the committee secretary, added a powerful deterrent: "If a DJ or band is found playing at any wedding function — on either the bride's or groom's side — local clerics or qazis invited from outside will not solemnise the ‘nikah', as decided in the panchayat."
A Step Towards Social Harmony
Community member Meenuddin highlighted the broader social benefits of this decision. He pointed out that many families struggle with the financial burden of expensive weddings. These rules will help maintain equality among all sections of the community by preventing a spending competition among neighbours.
"This is the first time our community here has spoken out so strongly against social evils linked to weddings," Meenuddin stated. He emphasized that the steps would prevent nuisance, reduce disputes often sparked by loud music and fireworks, and ultimately preserve community harmony and brotherhood.
The move by the Kosi Kalan panchayat is being seen as a strong push to restore the inherent simplicity of Islamic matrimonial rites while addressing contemporary social and financial pressures.
