African Student Opens Up About Finding Home in India: ‘This Place Boosted My Self-Esteem’
Charity Namusokwe, an African student pursuing her university education in India, has shared a heartfelt reflection on her life abroad, resonating deeply with online audiences. In a recent Instagram video titled “POV: You moved to India for university as an African”, she offers an intimate glimpse into her daily experiences as an international student far from home.
A Journey of Cultural Adaptation and Personal Growth
The video captures diverse moments from her university life, including dressing up in a traditional saree, attending vibrant campus festivals, and navigating the quiet loneliness that often accompanies living in a new country. Namusokwe spoke candidly about the overwhelming nature of her initial transition, particularly as someone from a completely different cultural background.
“Being new, being noticed, being asked where I’m from and why I chose India. Learning a new language and sometimes struggling to be understood, while trying my best to understand others too,” she wrote, recalling the early days of her journey. Despite occasional bouts of homesickness, she has gradually found her own rhythm and a sense of belonging in India.
Balancing Struggle with Warmth and Kindness
What stood out in her reflection was the delicate balance between struggle and warmth. “But there is also kindness. New friendships. Smiles, conversations, and moments that make me feel welcome. From sitting in an Indian salon chair, to wearing a sari, to finding joy in everyday life,” she added. Namusokwe credited India with shaping her personally, noting that the country has helped her grow in unexpected ways.
“India has taught me patience, resilience, and appreciation for different cultures. Grateful for the people I’ve met, the lessons I’m learning, and the opportunity to grow here, even on the days I miss home.”
Moving Beyond Comfort Zones and Building Confidence
In the comments section, she elaborated on how moving away from her family pushed her out of her comfort zone. “Moving away from your family isn’t easy but you learn to grow and honestly, India has given me so much courage to do things I never thought I could do, for example, content. This place boosted my self-esteem, it was like I could be who I wanted without any judgment,” she wrote.
The video has since garnered over 2 lakh views, with social media users flooding the comments with encouragement and support. One person commented, “So happy to see u there hope you take apart of india within u everywhere,” while another added, “It takes a lot to move from home to a diff country…coz its a lot but at times its worth it.” Others cheered her on, suggesting she make more friends and wishing her an even better time ahead in India.
Charity Namusokwe’s story highlights the transformative power of cross-cultural experiences, showcasing how challenges can lead to personal empowerment and a deeper sense of self in a foreign land.
